a miscellaneous collection

Ini bahan kain yang pertama untuk mama-mama bahan kain yang kedua ini untuk calon kakak gue and adek gue yang terakhir ini bahan untuk kebaya gue Ceritanya hunting itu sebenernya gue gak banyak tau karena gue pasrah ama nyokap yang lagi keluyuran di Semarang gegara dia pergi sebulan lamanya dan stay di tempat tante gue. Intinya gue sempet cerita kalo temen gue ngajakin ke mayestik sambil liat-liat kain di toko Fancy n mumbay. Waktu denger nama fancy, mom bilang, katanya untuk bahan kebaya putih gak ada yang bagus (ini sih soal selera). Tapi emang iya, untuk kebaya putih, broken white, off white, gue cuma nemu yang lebih sreg di mumbay. Gue sempet naksir satu kain yang enak bangettss plus murceee! Tapi apa daya emang belom jodo kali yaaa,, si kain kalo diliat-liat jadi gak broken white tapi jadi kekuningan, which is terlalu kuning buat keinginan gue. Sementara di fancy, emang yang lucu-lucu berwarna-warni itu yang bagus (lagi-lagi menurut selera gue). Padahal si fancy ini terk...

Menikah beda gereja (katolik dan GKI) membuat urus-mengurus nya jadi lebih complicated daripada yang jalannya lempeng-lempeng aja a.k.a gerejanya sama.hehehe... *we have a different love story* :D Urusan gereja: Tempat GKI Kebayoran Baru-Panglima Polim. Pendeta yang berkati: urusan si mas ludlud aja dehhh.. :P Bunga: diurus sendiri lewat kantor gereja. Choir: lewat kantor gereja. Tata ibadah pernikahan: diurus gereja (setelah ada pembicaraan dengan calon mempelai). Snack setelah pemberkatan: diurus sama Kakak :) Dokumen: yang masih kurang surat baptis mas ludlud, sama sertifikat bina pranikah GKI. Surat baptis siap bulan Desember. Bina pranikah ikut yang bulan Februari. Semua dokumen harus ready akhir Februari (3 bulan sebelum pernikahan dilaksanakan). Gereja St. Matius Penginjil: yang belum lengkap surat baptis mas ludlud (desember siap), surat baptis yayaz yang diperbarui (urus di sekre gereja), Februari atau awal Maret kontak pastor paroki untuk penyidika...

What Is the first things I have to do when prepare our wedding? *bingungsendiri* Pertama cari tanggal. It was not easy to set the date because we're javanese. We had a traditional ways to decide the date "menurut perhitungan jawa". Dan ribet! Karena banyak versi, tetua a.k.a eyang2 sudah tak lagi ada. Tadinya sempet tanya temen bokap, tapi gak lama temen bokap sakit kena stroke, tapi akhirnya ditetapkanlah tanggal 17 Mei 2014 sebagai hari untuk melangsungkan pernikahan kami. *setelah proses yang ribet pula* Dan sebelum menentukan tanggal, hal lain yang harus disurvei adalah katering! Test food dimana-mana sampe akhirnya semua jatuh hati sama katering yang disebut-sebut masuk top five nya katering di jakarta. Puspita sawargi. Laki gue yang ganteng ituh jatuh hati sama si bebek peking dan dendeng baladonya tapi sayangnya dua menu ini malah ga masuk di daftar menu kita..hehehe... akhir kata langsung tanda jadi dengan gak tau malunya, sejuta ajah cukup! *thank you tante ly...

The BIG Ideas of this was--- I'm going to marry Luddie next year! *awesome, great, happy, good things happen, struggle, family* oooo yes, of course everyone was happy when they heard the news. But before the date was announce, we had to went through a lot of hard times. No, this is not a hyperbola. The fact that we're have a different beliefs, we went to different church, and of course our family's background that has a big influence to us made everything seemed like very difficult. And this was make me (and him) keep on struggling in any situations. We know, that we couldn't do anything if we didn't enclose God in our relationship. Pray the rosary, pray the novena, pray together each nights, pray, pray, and pray. sometimes we prayed with full of tears, but again we pray with all our hearts to make all the dreams come true, all the love will be blessed on a holy marriage. And God always hears our prayers. He just wants us to talk to Him every nights, make...

After a long time,,  2 years since I forced myself to write on a blog, I come back.. Yaa,, it never been easy for me to "collect" all my memories that had happened between two years, but, I will try. I though that this blog will be a pocket journey about my love life. *boring huuhh?!* a little bit of daily life, and a bit of my occupational things. On the first semester of 2012, I got busy with the final essay, the observation, researches and many other things. But finally, I got through all of those crazy things on June and yeaaay!! go back to Jakarta. This was the beginning. I went back to Jakarta, got a job in Arts Council for 3 months, and resigned. Yes, resigned because I had a typhus fever and I was too tired to live in this cruel town. After hours we still had to enjoy the traffic jam for a couple of hours. not really good for your health and your mind, of course. But as a part timer in one of music school, I still had a chance to gain more income as a privat...